Driving down the road at night one can see more lights on the opposite road than one's own lane.Why is it so?
while driving we only pay attention to the way others are driving,the way they take turn,if they are giving the indicators and such other things which can have a possibility to effect us.And noticing our companions on the road in this way we neglect the brightness of their lights!
We do the same thing in our relations.When we meet a person we can see his good qualities only because we are not expecting any good from him,in other words he is on the opposite lane and hence his deeds shine brighter and when our relation gets little older and he starts moving along us, when we have fully recognised and made ourselves accustomed to that person we start noticing his mistakes neglecting his deeds which helped us somewhere in the past when no one was around us to help.And thus we start towards a break up.
while driving we only pay attention to the way others are driving,the way they take turn,if they are giving the indicators and such other things which can have a possibility to effect us.And noticing our companions on the road in this way we neglect the brightness of their lights!
We do the same thing in our relations.When we meet a person we can see his good qualities only because we are not expecting any good from him,in other words he is on the opposite lane and hence his deeds shine brighter and when our relation gets little older and he starts moving along us, when we have fully recognised and made ourselves accustomed to that person we start noticing his mistakes neglecting his deeds which helped us somewhere in the past when no one was around us to help.And thus we start towards a break up.
If anyone of us reaches this stage in his relation he should look back,and when he does he will see things he had neglected and he must because if there wasn't any such thing in the start the relation wouldn't have had established.,.,.and in the same way we see lights in the back mirror!!!
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