If You Call Yourself Then You Are Not MAD

Once i went to register myself for the pychology classes at a renouned institution of the city.My feeling were no unknown to myself for the subject but there was still a very queer thing i could find about humans that day.
   Well we all(candidates) were to take an academic test to approve our qualification for the level.And it was an easy one and I could easily complete it before the allowed time.The examiner came and we handed over him our answer papers and were asked to sit quietly till a lecturer comes and guide us about the further steps for the admission.But no one was obedient enough and all kept mumbling with the next sitting partner.
   Within ten minutes an elderly man came in and I could predict he was the professor we were waiting for.
    "Good morning students", he said."Its going to be just a short introductory session, and you are allowed to leave afterwards."
   He sits down after writing something on the board which he read afterwards.
   "Everyone will introduce himself and tell us why he is here today!.... and we will start with you" pointing at the boy sitting in the front."
   All the candidates stood and introduced themselves one by one.There was sitting a man among us and he was looking older than the other guys.I assumed he should be resuming his studies after some hurdles in his personal life as he was looking stable enough.On his turn he stood and said:
      "My name is Ishfaq and I work in a bank.I am married and have two children.As now a days every person's life has somewhat depressed him and anxieties are turning them into a harmful person and not thinking about the small but important things in our lives except the money and food,and that has also happened with me.I call myself also a half mad person.So I have decided not to wast my vacations.It would be a lot better if i could learn psychology and help myself in understanding my wife and my children and get myself out of the negative effects of everyday situations which effects my relations and my personal life."
   Everyone was looking at him with somewhat a surprised manner but for me it was a perfect application for a psychiatrist.The man who just called himself mad was seeming to be the wisest of the all at the time.
   The present day social environment of the world has not let anyone uninfluenced and we all have some kind of madness,complexes and anxieties inside us but this in not the only thing you categorize a person to be mad or not.But its the thing that you know it or not.Thats why, anyone can have psycho problems and complexes but only the mad one says "I am not mad".

"Everything has its place to fill"

When llife goes like a turn on a road

The past disappears with the sight of the fears

One can see, behind the silence hidding the plea

But never show that you are on your own

And never accept the sorrow with mourn

Everything has its place to fill

And everyone has the courage for the fight

Stand once again for the second round

Because first was never meant for the win

And third one is the last to show your strength

Why are we afraid of making mistakes

Why are we always afraid of making mistakes? We grow because of our mistakes and most of us stop growing when they reach adolescence.A child is more likely to make a mistake and when he does so, he grows.But somehow as we get older, fear grows inside us.Because somewhere in the past one of our mistake has brought sorrow.Ever after then we protected ourselves by developing fear of being hurt.And as we stop growing our life stops but the time still goes on.
      This is the point when we start looking for things to happen for us rather than we do and there comes the sufrings of wait and restlessness.Life should accept everything except nothing.Making mistakes is a sign that you are still young and your life has not stoped growing yet.

The Living Mirror

                                    
We see mirror to know how we look like and then we correct ourselves, put on things we need and give away things we dont.And eventually find what is rite for us.There is never a thing like good or bad but the only thing that is right for us and everyone is looking for that.
Every mirror is some how different from the other and we can feel the difference when we compare our reflection in them.Then how can we decide which one shows us the exact of us?
       At a certain point in everyone's life there comes the need of a Living Mirror.which shows you the exact of you.And after finding that one we come to know who we are.No matter how much we knew about ourselves but we surely feel that we were always been unknown to our ownselves after finding that one mirror.
      The person we find as the living mirror for ourselves can show us who we are and through his/her courtesy we can find the right for us.No one can make his path alone but if ever even then no one can asure if the path is right.

The Warriors of the Light

Warriors of light always keep a certain gleam in their eyes.
They are of this world, they are part of the lives of other people and they set
out on their journey with no saddlebags and no sandals.

They are often cowardly.
They do not always make the right decisions.
They suffer over the most trivial things, they have mean thoughts and
sometimes believe they are incapable of growing.

They frequently deem themselves unworthy of any blessing or miracle.
They are not always quite sure what they are doing here.

They spend many sleepless nights, believing that their lives have no meaning.
That is why they are warriors of light.

Because they make mistakes. Because
they ask themselves questions. Because they are looking for a reason - and are sure to
find it.

                                                                                (From the manual of the warrior of the light)

The Fundamentals

         Our soul is created through the soul of the universe and a pure soul has the capacity to absorb the energy from the soul of the universe.And the three fundamentals which help us create the bridge between the two souls are above any thing in the Universe.
Courage
    A warrior must have the courage to start the battle.
Believe
    Believe is fundamental to keep on going, regardless the failures and the hurdles you will face.
Love
   Love is essential to achieve your destiny.It sketches out the map of your success so you can trust the paths you will choose.

      When a soul is endowed with these three fundamental arms its hope becomes stronger and when the hope is strong enough it becomes the believe and when the believe is strong enough it becomes the reality.

Lights of our Companions

Driving down the road at night one can see more lights on the opposite road than one's own lane.Why is it so?
while driving we only pay attention to the way others are driving,the way they take turn,if they are giving the indicators and such other things which can have a possibility to effect us.And noticing our companions on the road in this way we neglect the brightness of their lights!
We do the same thing in our relations.When we meet a person we can see his good qualities only because we are not expecting any good from him,in other words he is on the opposite lane and hence his deeds shine brighter and when our relation gets little older and he starts moving along us, when we have fully recognised and made ourselves accustomed to that person we start noticing his mistakes neglecting his deeds which helped us somewhere in the past when no one was around us to help.And thus we start towards a break up.

           

             If anyone of us reaches this stage in his relation he should look back,and when he does he will see things he had neglected and he must because if there wasn't any such thing in the start the relation wouldn't have had established.,.,.and in the same way we see lights in the back mirror!!!